What you look for..

• Social suitability, competence, admirability, attractiveness.

What gets in the way..

• Insisting on career and social status before the relationship.
  Your strategy is to charm others and adopt whatever image will work.

Wake-up call..

• Awareness of always driving yourself to be the best and to get validation—so that you can rise
  to genuine embodiment of real values and an authentic expression of who you really are.