What you look for..

• Curiosity, intensity, involvement, non-intrusiveness.

What gets in the way..

• Insisting on personal space and non-interference. Your strategy is to stay preoccupied
  with ideas and projects and by detaching emotionally from others.

Wake-up call..

• Awareness of withdrawing from reality into concepts and mental worlds—so that you can rise
  to a profound and objective understanding of how reality really is.