What you look for..

• Commitment, dependability, shared values, solidity.

What gets in the way..

• Self-doubt and reactivity: vacillating between need for closeness and need for distance.
  Your strategy is to complain and test others' commitment to them.

Wake-up call..

• Awareness of becoming dependent on something outside of the self, so that you can rise
  to become grounded in your own inner guidance and feeling of endless support.