What you look for..

• Shared purpose and values, equality, fairness, integrity.

What gets in the way..

• Insisting on being right at the expense of your connection with others.
  Your strategy is to correct others and play on their sense of guilt and inadequacy.

Wake-up call..

• Awareness of feeling a sense of personal obligation to fix everything yourself — so that
  you can rise to a profound acceptance of and genuine tolerance for reality.