What you look for..

• Emotional connection, intimacy, warmth, affection.

What gets in the way..

• Insisting on exclusivity and ever more closeness. Your strategy is to find out what others need and desire
  and create secret dependencies.

Wake-up call..

• Awareness of believing that you must go out to others to win them over—so that you can rise
  to unconditional love of self and others, irrespective of others' reactions to you.