Path to Transformation..
- Bring the focus back on to yourself
- Give yourself what you usually give others
- Be your own person, not the one others want you to be
- Learn to say "No." Set limits. Discover what your needs are
- Train yourself to express your wishes
- Refrain from automatically giving help and advice; wait until asked
- Stop overgiving. Open up and receive when people give to you
- Don't rescue people. Allow others to be responsible for their behavior
- Only accept friendships and partnerships that are equal



