What you look for..

• Comfort, peace, harmony, stability.

What gets in the way..

• Insisting on not facing/acknowledging problems and remaining neutral in conflicts.
  Your strategy is to manipulate by "checking out" and by passive-aggressively resisting others.

Wake-up call..

• Awareness of the tendency to accommodate yourself outwardly to others, so that you can rise
  to a genuine remembering of your true strength, value, and dignity.